I'm curious --- How do you read a book?

I’ve posted much of the following as a comment on a blog, and felt this may be worthy of a discussion of it’s own. 

 

Over the last few books that I’ve read, I’ve been trying to pay attention to HOW I read a book.   This has proven to be rather difficult for me, as I like to lose myself in a story and I don’t really pay much attention to the “hows” or “whys”. 

 

What I wanted to establish was whether or not I imagined myself to be one of the protagonists.  Being female, some would assume that would have to be the female protagonist.   I’ve concluded that though I relate to the characters, I do not live vicariously through them or one of them.   

 

When I read a character driven book, I of course bring my own personal experiences with me.  If the author is gifted, I can often empathize with the characters, both male and female regardless of age, race or circumstance.  If I do not have the personal experience to draw on to empathize, I can and do sympathize with characters - or “relate” to.  And as I don't live vicariously through a character, I am free to "relate" to any gender of protagonist and I'm not limiting my experience.   

 

I think that is why I dislike first person narrative.  I don’t want to be limited to any one character.   It makes me uncomfortable.  And this also explains why if the book is in first person, I prefer it as an audio book.  The story is then being “told” to me and I am not in the story.  In the case of the Jonathan Kellerman Alex Delaware books, which are told in the first person; Alex is male and perhaps that is why those books work for me.  Or it could simply be the remarkable talent of Jonathan Kellerman (I suspect the later). 

 

And this also explains why I prefer multiple points of view.  Though we can learn of a character by that characters words and actions and how they are perceived by others, it is my preference to have at least some of his or her point of view.   

 

To further explain "how" I read a book, I'll share again my reading experience as I described it last year of an Emma Darcy Harlequin Presents ......

 

using The Italian's Stolen Bride as an example, Ms Darcy from the first pages grabbed at my emotions and I felt Luc's anguish, how shattered he was at what his brother was confessing ... when Skye crouched in front of her inquisitive son and pleaded "You must never get in his car. Never go with him anywhere. Do you hear me, Matt?" I felt her cold mother's fear; and I felt pride in Matt, when he glares at Luc and tells him he better not hurt his Mummy .... later when Luc confronted his father, and slammed his fist on his father's desk with such force, I felt Luc's outrage and betrayal .... and when Luc leapt to his feet and declared to Skye "You come first with me!" I felt his passion and anguish and when he declares to her "You're the woman I want above all others", I felt the embrace of his love .... and in the final scenes of the book, when Skye grasps her son's hand and leaps to her feet and declares to Luc's father "I do have family, Mr. Peretti. I have my son." I felt all of her pent up pain and cheered her on ...

 

When I read, I see the scenes in my head very much as if they were unfolding in front of me, perhaps like a movie. I can feel the emotions of the characters and often will experience tears or laugh out loud; but I've never imagined that I am one of the characters     

 

How do you read a book?  Do you imagine yourself as one of the characters?  Or are you a caring observer?  … Or put another way.   Do you live in the story or do you watch the story unfold as if it were scenes from a movie? 

 

~~ KatherineT ~~ I'm a Harlequin Addict, and I'm proud of it!
~~ Quiet Canadians ~ 2008 Book Challenge Blog

tough question

I think I can answer this more by what I don't do.  I don't imagine myself as either character.  I don't envision the scenes unfolding.  And I wouldn't say I'm a caring observer.  Hmmm...  I'm definitely a plot driven rather than a character driven reader.  I think I just like to get lost in the world the author creates but yet I'm not envisioning it at all.  I don't notice (other than the rare instance, like when Tom Cruise was in INTERVIEW WITH A VAMPIRE) when the cover doesn't match or when the hair color changes, etc.  Because I am just lost in a story.... I don't know really how to explain it any other way.  Maybe some other responses will help me out here.

I know what you mean ...........

I like to allow myself to be swept up in the story the author is weaving ....how that happens hasn't really been a concern for me, as long as it happened ....  but when I started to pay closer attention to how I was imagining the story, I found I was an observer not a participant  .... I didn't imagine myself as if I were the heroine or hero  ....... and the only way to sort of describe that is like watching a movie .... one that brings me to tears or laughter or whatever other emotion the scene brings  ... I can be involved in a great movie, but I'm not pretending / imagining being one of the characters

 

I know very hard to describe .....

 

 

~~ KatherineT ~~ I'm a Harlequin Addict, and I'm proud of it!
~~ Quiet Canadians ~ 2008 Book Challenge Blog

I hear you!

And in that context, I'm an observer.  I just was thinking of a friend who literally envisions each scene as if she is watching a movie and I don't do that.  But yes, I'm definitely an observer.  I don't like it when a book actually has anything that I truly identify with to the point I'm like one of the characters~ it defeats for me the whole purpose of reading fiction, if that makes sense.

What an interesting question!

I don't know that I've ever really thought about it before. Sometimes there are characters that I really identify with, but I don't think of that character as me--if that makes any sense at all. I believe that I'm more of an observer. When the book is really well written I will be drawn in as if I'm watching a movie, play or opera that pulls the observer in but still remain outside of the action. The more I can really "feel" the emotion the better I think the author has done in creating her characters. I want a book to "emote."

RE: HOW DO YOU READ A BOOK? -- AND WHY

Of course, the smart-arse answer is: with my eyes!

With a lot of the Harlequin/Imprint books, I really don't find myself living vicariously through some of the characters or wanting to be them, but find them mostly as "ordinary people facing extraordinary circumstances."

That being said, with a lot of the SOLDIER and NASCAR stories, I DO actually feel as if I'm there and that I'm the HERO and the pretty Heroine, just out of reach, will soon be mine -- and we'll live HEA!

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Hmmm

I have never cast myself as one of the characters in a book...but periodically i can relate to a character of either gender if i have gone through a similar situation. 

Characters i couldnt relate to or symphathize with were the girls in  Candice Bushnell's "Lipstick Jungle" (now a series).  I just couldnt get into those girls.  Couldnt relate to them at all.

I like to give characters a face...so i cast the characters in my head (Stepanie Plum is Sandra Bullock, Ranger is Lorenzo Lamas, etc).

Janet Evanovich's Stephanie Plum, is in the first person. But I think it works for her.  But maybe one book can be done from the prospective of  Joe Morelli or Lula.  Maybe Stephs poor put upon mother.

Terri
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Katherine

I think I do a combination of both "being the heroine" and "seeing the book" as if it is a movie that I am watching. In my twenties, I read Regency Romance exclusively. I remember being the heroine almost everytime I read the book. I wanted to live in that time and wear those cloths and have the hero fall for me.

I have always seen the books in my mind like a movie. I see the hero and heroine and other characters. I see their homes, business, the scenery described plus more. Details that are described by the author and some that are not because my mind fills in the blanks.

I love Emma Darcy and I loved the book you quoted by her. As I read it again, I am remembering much of the scene. Especially with the son. She was outside walking home with her son and then sees Luc so she tells him to go inside. I see him going but then turning and telling the hero that he had better not hurt him mummy. The he runs into the house.

I think seeing it in my mind with such detain helps me to remember the books better. I still will often make myself the heroine especially if I really like her and if he is really yummy. :)

Margie :)

This was definitely a shocker! I hated the casting at the beginning. Tom Cruise should have been cast as Louis, not Brad Pitt. But, I guess TC is a good actor since by the end of the movie, I had assimilated him with LeStat. However, when I re-read the series, I don't imagine TC as LeStat. Thank the Gods!

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Oh wow, some really great comments! ....

Hi Nancy ..... I want a book to "emote."   .... yes, that pretty much sums it up for me too .... I want the author to knock my socks off ....

 

ROFL, Marty!  ..... of course with your eyes!  Surprised  .....  interesting that you do feel as if you're the Hero when it comes to NASCAR or to Soldiers .... I suppose you have more in common with those heroes, and can more easily slip into their heads?  ..... and ah, that pretty heroine just out of reach! ... but not for long!  LOL

 

Terri .... for some books that I've been able to visualize very vividly, I have tried to sort of "cast" the characters ...... Olivia Gates' "Doctor on the Frontline" is one ..... I would definitely cast the hero as Antonio Banderas ... the heroine is tougher to cast, she's a very strong strawberry blonde ... Kate Winslett perhaps? 

 

Margie! ... yes! .. that is exactly the scene!  .... that was such a powerful moment .... I was so proud of Matt for protecting his Mummy .... I still will often make myself the heroine especially if I really like her and if he is really yummy. :)   .....  hmmmm, maybe I better practice pretending to be the heroine ... this sounds like there may be possiblities!  LOL  Wink 

 

FF, not having read the book, I can't really comment .... I did see the movie, and honestly didn't care much for TC's performance ..... I did like Christian Slater's performance  .... seems to me they had originally thought of someone other than TC, but TC was a better box office draw .... shame

 

Thanks everyone for your great comments!

 

~~ KatherineT ~~ I'm a Harlequin Addict, and I'm proud of it!
~~ Quiet Canadians ~ 2008 Book Challenge Blog

Its a good thing...

I read  "Interview" , and all subsiquent books before the movie was released.  I never would have cast Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt. Especially Tom...I just dont like him as an actor. 

But they seemed to make it work. Kinda

its funny, cause I was working as a hotel operator, and Neil Jordan (the Director) was in the hotel for Oscar time (nominated for The Crying Game). He checked in for his messages and I told him I was glad he was directing "Interview", but that I wouldnt have picked TC...and he just chuckled).

Terri
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Hi Katherine T.

I'm not one that analizes about reading!  That said, I read for enjoyment and don't think to much about how I'm reading.  Pulling my thoughts together to post about the books is enough of a challenge for me.  However, this is an interesting question & discussion.  I'm missing more discussions like we had last year when we really had "groups".  I don't get that feeling so much this year with the changes.

I just stopped in to see what all of you "Quiet Canadians" are reading.  Have a great weekend. Smile

Take care, happy reading,
Donna M, Dream Team member

Donna, re the "group" (aka "team") thing

I've bookmarked most if not all the "teams" and can quickly check their most recent blog entries and book reviews.  They're in one folder in my browser.  Ditto several individuals who aren't on teams but whose tastes have proven similar to mine over the years.  I've been limiting myself to checking those just once or twice a week but it seems to be enough . . .

FWIW,

Penn 

A great question.  I read

A great question.  I read in several ways. 

I do not necessarily imagine myself as a character but I do like it when a book of fiction makes me think of things I have experienced or gives me insights.  There is one part of me that reads in a personal way.  It isn't a one-to-one correlation though.  Like Trish Wylie's last HR book giving me insight into my mom as a divorcee with a child even though that is not the exact situation in her book at all.  I find fiction teaches me about myself and the world in many ways from emotional to spiritual.  But I do not ever imagine myself in the scene.

I do like to see women in books portrayed as strong, smart etc.  It's the feminist in me.  I guess it means in that instance I look for role models....although that is not really at all how I read in other ways.  Medieval literature can seem very anti-feminist in certain corners/works and yet that time period is my passion. This probably comes more into play with books set in moder times.  And ye I do like stories of women who break through cultures or situations that are not good to women... telling the stories can make silent women's voices heard if that makes sense.  It's not necessarily a role model thing but similar for non-fiction and spirtual writing.  I read to get something out of it applicable to today.

There is part of me that reads for artisitc and aesthetic pleasure.  That's why I studied literature for so long.  I love the how and why of stories as much as the what.  It's not a stuffy or pedantic thing and it's not a right/wrong thing...maybe it's weird but I get really, really excited looking at stories and when the writing has parallels of this and echoes of that, and all that stuff.  It doesn't even matter to me sometimes the plot or characters or anything or if it is a story I typically like or a genre I like or any of that if the writing itself draws me in.  I can feel just as passionately about a book for these reasons as the story itself.  It gives me great pleasure to see that while reading and it isn't something I turn off when I read strictly for pleasure.   I really love art and I guess I look at writing like I do the visual and performing arts.  

I also read with questions.  I sort of open up a book and ask what a book has to tell me.  I try to approach a book so it opens my mind instead of necessarily trying to put myself into or over a book.  Instead of having checklists of what I do and don't like and what I expect, I try to just ask questions of a book.  Why is it this way and not that?  Things like that.  It's not a judgemental thing but more open-ended questions to see where the book takes me. 

AKA Merri
Family Challenge Team: The Spine Breakers with my dh Glenn AKA Phaedrus

Reading is a pure joy for me .........

there were years, and I do mean "years" where I couldn't concentrate long enough to read a book .... it was incredibliy frustrating and in many ways for the "readaholic" that I was prior to Lupus, it was devastating .... I worked deligently on my concentration skills and was thrilled four - five years ago when I rediscovered Harlequins .... they are the perfect read for someone with my cognitive issues ... they don't force me to "think" -- they are tightly written so I rarely lose interest -- there is always a HEA

 

Donna, I agree reading is a pleasure ..... and for some they'll never really get that until the ability to read is taken from them .... I have no desire to read "heavier" books that make one "think" ..... that literally is too hard for my brain, and I'm superstitous enough to not want to jinx the gift that's been returned to me ..... for me reading will always foremost be for pure joy ....

 

Merri ... I understand your love of the "art" of literature .... it's most definitely not a right or wrong thing ..... it's love of words and how those words can create images in our minds ... or give us insights into the thoughts and minds of others  ... the sharing of ideas and how those ideas affect the world around us .... and for just the pleasure and the small escapes a really well written story can give us from our own personal "realities" 

 

oh ... Donna if you pop back here .... click on "Blogs" at the top of the page ... then click on "more" under the "Most Recent Blog Entries" ..... there you will find the discussion blogs ... you can skim through them quickly to find the discussions you miss and then either "bookmark" them in your web browser or add them to your eHarl "favourites"  .... and don't be afraid to have lots of stuff in your eHarl favourites ... the discussions and blogs with the most recent activity always go to the top of the list ..... and after a while you'll know certain topics are finished and you can remove them from your favourite list ....  give that a try and see if that works for you

 

and like Penni suggested if you click on the "Dream Team Tag" you can bookmark that to your web browser ... and  you can do that with any of the teams, just click on their tags ...... of if you want an individuals reading, you can from their profile page, click on their "blog entries" and mark that page to your web browser

 

the more time you hang out and move around, the easier it becomes ... and I'm sure there are going to be improvements ... it just takes time

 

 

 

~~ KatherineT ~~ I'm a Harlequin Addict, and I'm proud of it!
~~ Quiet Canadians ~ 2008 Book Challenge Blog

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