I'll tell you the truth.
When I sat to write this blog a few days ago, a huge, empty thought balloon materialized above my head.
Why ‘do' I believe in love? For I certainly do.
After wracking my brains, I realized why I was having such a problem coming up with reasons. It's one of those questions you go through life never asking, or if you do, you think the answers wouldn't need thinking about. Not so. Not in my case, at least.
Everything I came up with seemed just...not right. So I put writing the blog aside, hoping to come up with what would put across what fills my heart and head.
Then as I drove from work yesterday, I had consecutive calls from my mother, husband, brother, daughter and two friends. After the phone calls were over, I turned to thinking of my patients and their cases, my new characters and their plots.
Once at home, I had another call from a colleague who lives a few streets from me, and who was almost screaming in frustration over the horrendous drive home, needing to moan about it with a fellow martyr.
But I didn't know what she was talking about. The drive had been extra smooth.
Then I looked at my watch. It was a full two hours since I left work! And I realized.
I hadn't felt the snailing-by time or cars because I had my loved ones with me, keeping me company, distracting me with the enjoyment of their concern and concerns, with the flow of conversation. After that, love of what I do, in both jobs as doctor and author, filled my head and kept me from suffering the frustration my colleague had suffered.
And it came to me. Why I believe in love. It's because love, all kinds of love, for loved ones, of what I do, of a job well done, of achievement, of perseverance, of giving, of animals, of nature and of all life makes the same things that would have been bad without it OK, makes OK things great and good things memorable.
I believe in love because of how it has always changed my perception and my perspective.
So, tell me, big or small, how has love changed your perception or perspective?
To add an incentive for lurkers to come out and comment, I'm offering a prize.
One person who answers in the comments will be selected to win a copy of my Debut book for Silhouette Desire, Book One of my Throne of Judar mini-series out in May 2008, THE DESERT LORD'S BABY.
And IF there are many comments, there'll be more than one copy winging its way to the winners... :-D
About Olivia Gates:

Olivia Gates lives with her alpha husband, lovely daughter and their white Angora cat. Her husband is her adviser and, with her incredible mother, her staunchest supporter. Her daughter gives her plot ideas, and they're all along the lines of a doctor trying to reach his patients on a hot rainbow barefoot. With an imagination like that, Olivia's encouraging her to write her own books. Olivia's cat curls up on her lap, cramping her and critically watching the story unfold on the screen, then tries to edit the manuscript to his liking by walking all over the keyboard.

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Hey Olivia
I wouldn't have known why you believe in love, but I knew you do believe in love because how could you not believe in love when you brought us Damian
I also enjoy your Medicals and I'm about to start on some of your
)
Desires, but it'll have to be some hero to move Damian from first spot
(don't tell Callista
Hugs
Sadhbh
Dream Team 2008 Challenge blogs
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And yes Olivia, we can forgive you for
only having read eight books, when you've written two and brainstormed more for us for future reading
please pretty please may I have more Damian?
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Olivia
Olivia,
Two life changing events happened to me in the same year - 1998 that changed my perspective on love. My father died in January at age 62. He was in great health until a melanoma in eye mestastasized to his lungs, liver and spleen. From that point, he had 6 weeks left to live. It realy hit me then that life is short and to treasure each day. The other event was much happier. My daughter was born in December. After years of fertility issues, lightning struck and I had one child. Becoming a mother has filled my heart with love and joy. I now understand the deep and special love that a mother has for her child. I would do anything to keep her safe. And, seeing the world through her eyes of wonder is such a thrill for me
Tammy
Tammy
June 2009 Member of the Month
Well Said!
This was really well said. I could really relate to the frustrated person in traffic, but you totally nailed why your experience was different... all in perspective.. and in the wealth of love you were giving and receiving.
Thanks for a warm fuzzy today.
Crystal
100,000 Books Blog: crystalrclass
I enjoyed your post because
I enjoyed your post because for me it is all the many people in my life that care about me that make me believe in love each day,
waving!
Hey Olivia! I was with you the whole way on your lovely post. It's not something I ponder every day, but when you really have to think about it you realise that you know love because you live it.
And more Damian would suit me fine too, though I could always re-read him, again and again... ;)
Ally
'THE MAGNATE'S INDECENT PRPOSAL' Modern Heat, May 08
'HIRED: THE BOSS'S BRIDE' Harlequin Romance, October 08
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Sadhbh
LOL that Damian proved to you I know all about love.
I'm still thrilled that he reached people that much, even when we were never in his head, with Calista being the one through whose eyes (and senses and mind and body) we experienced him.
And though he'll always be unique, I hope you'll like my upcoming Sheikhs in Desire as much, if in different ways.
One thing that makes me hope you will is that my Desire Debut Sheikh, the oldest Aal Masood brother, Farooq, just got a TOP PICK from Romantic Times!
But, aaahhhh, how I'd love to have more Damian, too.
Say, why not email me and I can send you some more?
Desire
THE CASTALDINI CROWN
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THE PRODIGAL PRINCE'S SEDUCTION—Jun 09
THE ILLEGITIMATE KING—Jul 09
Nocturne
MORTAL ENEMY, IMMORTAL LOVER—Awakening The Beast Oct 09
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Olivia - you've got mail
Hugs
Sadhbh
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Who won "The Desert Lord's Baby"
Sadhbd? I was hoping it was her (well if not me)
Tammy
Tammy
June 2009 Member of the Month
Tammy
Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us. I had a similar experience when I lost my father to cancer. Also having a daughter has certainly changed my perspective and expectations in just about everything.
And I haven't made a draw yet on The Desert Lord's Baby. Was hoping more people would join in and comment till the end of the month!
Desire
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Nocturne
MORTAL ENEMY, IMMORTAL LOVER—Awakening The Beast Oct 09
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Crystal
Thanks for commenting and glad you liked my post. It really makes all the difference when love enters the equation.
Desire
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Maureen
Glad you enjoyed the post. And you're exactly right. Love gives us reasons to believe in it everyday. And the greatest gift it had ever given me was the ability to focus on the good parts and see the best in every situation.
Thanks for commenting!
Desire
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Ally
Hey, there! Thanks for stopping by.
And you're so right about not thinking about somethings because we're busy living them.
As for more Damian, well, maybe one day there will be more and more demand for him, he'll let us share him.. uh, ahem, I mean...share more of his adventures.
Desire
THE CASTALDINI CROWN
THE ONCE AND FUTURE PRINCE—May 09
THE PRODIGAL PRINCE'S SEDUCTION—Jun 09
THE ILLEGITIMATE KING—Jul 09
Nocturne
MORTAL ENEMY, IMMORTAL LOVER—Awakening The Beast Oct 09
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WINNERS!
OK, ladies! I'm here to announce the winners of a copy of my debut Desire, THE DESERT LORD'S BABY!
Tammy and Crystal!
Congrats ladies!
Can you please send me your snail mail, plus phone numbers???
Thanks for participating and congrats. I hope you enjoy the book!
Desire
THE CASTALDINI CROWN
THE ONCE AND FUTURE PRINCE—May 09
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THE ILLEGITIMATE KING—Jul 09
Nocturne
MORTAL ENEMY, IMMORTAL LOVER—Awakening The Beast Oct 09
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Wow
Olivia,
What a nice surprise. I won! I can't wait to read this book. It looks very intriguing. How do I send you my address? Do I post it here?
Thanks,
Tammy
Tammy
June 2009 Member of the Month
Tammy
So glad it was a nice surprise. I hope you enjoy the book, and that you'll let me (and others
) know if you do!
As for posting your address, email it to me. My email is oliviagates @ oliviagates . com (without the spaces, of course)
Congrats again!
Desire
THE CASTALDINI CROWN
THE ONCE AND FUTURE PRINCE—May 09
THE PRODIGAL PRINCE'S SEDUCTION—Jun 09
THE ILLEGITIMATE KING—Jul 09
Nocturne
MORTAL ENEMY, IMMORTAL LOVER—Awakening The Beast Oct 09
http://www.oliviagates.com
Top Pick
***One thing that makes me hope you will is that my Desire Debut Sheikh, the oldest Aal Masood brother, Farooq, just got a TOP PICK from Romantic Times!***
Congratulations Olivia!! I still waiting for my May RT, really looking forward to the review. And I noticed Mills & Boon online sold out of The Sheikh Surgeon's Proposal!
Calling Crysal!
I've been waiting to hear from you!
Hosties...if Crystal doesn't pop in here again, is there a way you can infrom her she's won a copy of The Desert Lord's Baby and that I'll need her address to send it to her?
Desire
THE CASTALDINI CROWN
THE ONCE AND FUTURE PRINCE—May 09
THE PRODIGAL PRINCE'S SEDUCTION—Jun 09
THE ILLEGITIMATE KING—Jul 09
Nocturne
MORTAL ENEMY, IMMORTAL LOVER—Awakening The Beast Oct 09
http://www.oliviagates.com
Olivia
Crystal is one of my friends, so I saw her last post from earlier today and I added my post after hers to tell her she won your book and where to e-mail you.
Tammy
June 2009 Member of the Month
Thanks Tammy!
I went to her page profile but discovered there was no way to contact our buddies (or if there is one, I failed to see it) It didn't occur to me to follow her posts! So thanks so much for thinking of it and doing it, too!
Desire
THE CASTALDINI CROWN
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THE PRODIGAL PRINCE'S SEDUCTION—Jun 09
THE ILLEGITIMATE KING—Jul 09
Nocturne
MORTAL ENEMY, IMMORTAL LOVER—Awakening The Beast Oct 09
http://www.oliviagates.com
Your Very Welcome, Olivia
I am always happy to help. I can't wait to get my book. I see reviews of your books all the time here and everyone loves your books and has such great things to say about them
Tammy
June 2009 Member of the Month
Sooo Sooo sorry!
Olivia,
I'm So SOOO sorry you couldn't find me! I have a hard time keeping track of all the places I post and I totally forgot to check back here.
I'm sending you an email with the information right now!
And I'm so thrilled to win a copy of your next book. I have just found you this year and have really been enjoying seaching out your back list, so this will be a treat!
Going to do the happy dance! .. what a way to start a Monday!
P.S. It drives me crazy that we can't directly email people too! I've run into that barrier several times.
Crystal
100,000 Books Blog: crystalrclass
Olivia
I got the book Saturday. Can't wait to read it. I just finished Doctors on the Frontline. After, i read it, I promptly bought Strong Medicne and Radical Cure. Thanks again!
Tammy
June 2009 Member of the Month
Tammy
Thanks for letting me know you received the book. And for reading Doctors on the Frontline!
I'm so glad you enjoyed it enough it sent you searching for more of my books!!!
My Bombshells Strong Medicine and Radical Cure, as well as my Throne of Judar Desires are totally different of course, from that book and from each other, but I hope you'll enjoy them too!!
Desire
THE CASTALDINI CROWN
THE ONCE AND FUTURE PRINCE—May 09
THE PRODIGAL PRINCE'S SEDUCTION—Jun 09
THE ILLEGITIMATE KING—Jul 09
Nocturne
MORTAL ENEMY, IMMORTAL LOVER—Awakening The Beast Oct 09
http://www.oliviagates.com
Hi, I just found this thread
Hi to All,
I just found this thread & notice that I must be missing something, I can't find 'Doctors on the Frontline', 'Strong Medicine' & 'Radical Cure' in HQ or Amazon sites. They sound very interesting.
If anyone can help me a little where can I get these books (preferably in Kindle or ebook format) I would greatly appreciate it.
Thanks,
Orchid
Orchid
"Earth provides enough to satisfy every man's need, but not every man's greed." ~ Mahatma Gandhi
"Love is Blind, Greed is Insatiable" ~ Chinese Proverbs
Orchid
I found all 3 books at half.com - Go to www.half.com, You can get all 3 for .75 each. Try to get them from the same seller if you can to save on shipping.
Tammy
June 2009 Member of the Month
Orchid
Regretfully, none of these books are in either eBook or Kindle format (but it would be great if you expressed your desire for them to be made into ones to those who have the power to make it so!! If enough people want it, maybe it will come to pass...)
Anyway, till this happens, why don't you drop me an email? I'd love to send them to you.
Desire
THE CASTALDINI CROWN
THE ONCE AND FUTURE PRINCE—May 09
THE PRODIGAL PRINCE'S SEDUCTION—Jun 09
THE ILLEGITIMATE KING—Jul 09
Nocturne
MORTAL ENEMY, IMMORTAL LOVER—Awakening The Beast Oct 09
http://www.oliviagates.com
Tammy, thanks
Thank you for your help.
Orchid
Orchid
"Earth provides enough to satisfy every man's need, but not every man's greed." ~ Mahatma Gandhi
"Love is Blind, Greed is Insatiable" ~ Chinese Proverbs
Olivia
Hi, Olivia
Thank you, I shall email you in a little while, it will be from a 'Yahoo' email address.
I have the printed copies AND the Kindle Format of the Desert Lord Baby & Desert Lord Bride. I like to read from my Kindle, but the printed copy is for my collection.
Thanks again.
Orchid
Orchid
"Earth provides enough to satisfy every man's need, but not every man's greed." ~ Mahatma Gandhi
"Love is Blind, Greed is Insatiable" ~ Chinese Proverbs
Olivia
Olivia,
Sorry, correction, my email address will be from 'AOL', starting with 'm'
Thanks
Orchid
Orchid
"Earth provides enough to satisfy every man's need, but not every man's greed." ~ Mahatma Gandhi
"Love is Blind, Greed is Insatiable" ~ Chinese Proverbs
Who's Damien?
Pleases tell me what book he comes from? He sounds like a must read. I have the last of the Dessert Lords triology on order so will be reading the 3 of them when I get it. I just love the covers on the other two
Olivia I must confess I have yet to read any of your books but if I had been around in March I would have been looking for them after reading this blog. Love just is. Your thoughts here are so on the mark. I am really looking forward to reading the trilogy.
February 2009 Member of the Month
When I get a little money I buy books, and then if any is left I buy food and clothes..-- Erasmus
Cats can work out mathematically the exact place to sit that will cause the most inconvenience.--Pam Brown
Orchid!
Got your mail. Books will be winging their way to you asap. I hope you enjoy them!
Desire
THE CASTALDINI CROWN
THE ONCE AND FUTURE PRINCE—May 09
THE PRODIGAL PRINCE'S SEDUCTION—Jun 09
THE ILLEGITIMATE KING—Jul 09
Nocturne
MORTAL ENEMY, IMMORTAL LOVER—Awakening The Beast Oct 09
http://www.oliviagates.com
Kaelee
Damian is the hero of my Dr. Calista St. James series for Bombshell. I had two books out starring him and Calista before the line was cancelled. And he seems to have cultivated quite the following. You want to hear about him, ask Sadhbh.
Here's hoping I can write more books about him sometime in the future.
If you'd like to read about him, I'm extending the same invitation to you as the one I did to Orchid. Email me your snail mail and I'll send you the books. I doubt you'd find them anywhere now, and I'd love to facilitate enjoying Damian any way I can.
And I'm so glad my post resonated with you. I hope you enjoy Throne of Judar series when you finally read them. And let me know what you think of them?
And yes, aren't the covers magnificent????
Desire
THE CASTALDINI CROWN
THE ONCE AND FUTURE PRINCE—May 09
THE PRODIGAL PRINCE'S SEDUCTION—Jun 09
THE ILLEGITIMATE KING—Jul 09
Nocturne
MORTAL ENEMY, IMMORTAL LOVER—Awakening The Beast Oct 09
http://www.oliviagates.com
Olivia
Thats a very generous offer and I will send you my address. I know Sadhbh loves your books and it was a combination of hers and others recommendations that made me order the trilogy. I am so overwhelmed. I have to Thank Orchid as well for finding this site and bringing it up so that I read it.
February 2009 Member of the Month
When I get a little money I buy books, and then if any is left I buy food and clothes..-- Erasmus
Cats can work out mathematically the exact place to sit that will cause the most inconvenience.--Pam Brown
Olivia
Olivia
Thank you so so very very much!!!
I am looking forward to reading them.
Orchid
Orchid
"Earth provides enough to satisfy every man's need, but not every man's greed." ~ Mahatma Gandhi
"Love is Blind, Greed is Insatiable" ~ Chinese Proverbs
Kaelee, happy reading
Kaelee
Isn't this a wonderful thread! I just stumbled across it when I was looking into several member's comments, I got lost for a little while, but was so happy when I got to this thread, that's why I had to make a comment to bring it to the top.
I am so looking forward to reading Olivia's books.
In the meantime, I am going to read the Desert Lord first 2 books in my Kindle.
Yeh! Happy reading.
Orchid
Orchid
"Earth provides enough to satisfy every man's need, but not every man's greed." ~ Mahatma Gandhi
"Love is Blind, Greed is Insatiable" ~ Chinese Proverbs
Orchid
Have you gone deeper into this site? I have just discovered that there are other authors giving their thoughts on love as well. Now I will be spending some time reading the thoughts from them. Hit Blog Bash ll and look under recent posts. Does anyone know if there was a blog bash l this year? I just noted that Michele Dunaway did March 31. Wow I will be reading all of them for sure.
February 2009 Member of the Month
When I get a little money I buy books, and then if any is left I buy food and clothes..-- Erasmus
Cats can work out mathematically the exact place to sit that will cause the most inconvenience.--Pam Brown
Olivia
The above comment to Orchid takes nothing away from my appreciation of your thoughts. I was so happy to get an author's insight. Now I will be able to read 30 more I think?
February 2009 Member of the Month
When I get a little money I buy books, and then if any is left I buy food and clothes..-- Erasmus
Cats can work out mathematically the exact place to sit that will cause the most inconvenience.--Pam Brown
Kindle reads
I've been lurking here and thought I'd just add that Amazon has a new feature that you can request books to be added in the Kindle format. Just pull up the book and then look to the left and down a bit and you'll see it ask. If they get enough requests they'll get it for you. I've requested several and one is now available.
The D2K Paranormal Junkies ~ 2008 Book Challenge Blog
That's Great
Hi, Deb: Woo Hoo! That's great news. I definitely will do quite a few clicking in Amazon. Thank you for letting me know.
Hi, Kaelee: I'd love to read those blogs, I already save this to my favourites, so that I can go search some more. Just give me more hours a day
Orchid
Orchid
"Earth provides enough to satisfy every man's need, but not every man's greed." ~ Mahatma Gandhi
"Love is Blind, Greed is Insatiable" ~ Chinese Proverbs
Wow, Deb...
...that's great news! THANKS for letting us know about this.
Hmmm, there maybe another chance at life yet for my out-of-print books. That is *IF* enough people ask for them to be made into Kindle format.
Desire
THE CASTALDINI CROWN
THE ONCE AND FUTURE PRINCE—May 09
THE PRODIGAL PRINCE'S SEDUCTION—Jun 09
THE ILLEGITIMATE KING—Jul 09
Nocturne
MORTAL ENEMY, IMMORTAL LOVER—Awakening The Beast Oct 09
http://www.oliviagates.com
That would
be good! I'm impatiently waiting on my order to arrive. I've put off reading the Desert Lord's Bride until I got the third book. It drove me crazy after reading the first not having the second one available but I'm getting very impatient. I know they're going to be great as I've read some really awesome reviews for them.
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Hi, Olivia, Thank you so
Hi, Olivia,
Thank you so much! I received your package today. This is such a wonderful surprise when I get back to work after a 2 weeks vacation. I almost did a happy dance at work!
Thanks again, can't wait to go home & start reading.
Orchid
Orchid
"Earth provides enough to satisfy every man's need, but not every man's greed." ~ Mahatma Gandhi
"Love is Blind, Greed is Insatiable" ~ Chinese Proverbs
OMG! Thank you for the
OMG! Olivia, Thank you for the autographed books. <grinning like crazy now>
I couldn't open the package in the office
, just got home & immediately look into each one, what a wonderful surprise 
. Now I know which one I should read first. Must go & start reading.
Thank you.
Orchid
"Earth provides enough to satisfy every man's need, but not every man's greed." ~ Mahatma Gandhi
"Love is Blind, Greed is Insatiable" ~ Chinese Proverbs
Hi Olivia
Thank you so much I just received my two Bombshells in the mail today. My husband was very impressed with the mailing envelope. Now I will just have to find the time to read them.
February 2009 Member of the Month
When I get a little money I buy books, and then if any is left I buy food and clothes..-- Erasmus
Cats can work out mathematically the exact place to sit that will cause the most inconvenience.--Pam Brown
Kaelee - making time to read Olivia's books has never been
my problem, trying to drag myself away to make dinner is more of a problem
Hugs
Sadhbh
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Sadhbh
I just don't read as fast as you. I wish I could but I don't. You have 30 books to post or more by now and I have only 10 waiting to be posted. It is a hugh difference. My TBR is probably close to your 900 though.
February 2009 Member of the Month
When I get a little money I buy books, and then if any is left I buy food and clothes..-- Erasmus
Cats can work out mathematically the exact place to sit that will cause the most inconvenience.--Pam Brown