What's the movie that made you cry the most???

OK, so I'm running a competition over on my blog (http://www.natalie-anderson.blogspot.com) for some books and other fabulous freebies, together with my CP Jude (who I met on the eHarl boards!!!).

We're wanting to know what movie it was that made you howl - that touched that raw spot and made it bleed...

I love books and movies that force a strong emotional reaction from me - altho I admit there are some movies that made me cry so much I kinda hate them! ;) But you know how a good cry can leave you feeling relieved and almost refreshed after? Even with red eyes and a bit of a headache??!!

There are a couple of movies that really screwed me up into a little ball - they were out a couple of years after a massive bereavement - and somehow I was just right back there - and all that stuff just poured out - has that ever happened to you?! That's definitely a love/hate experience...

Anyway, to enter just email me (or post here) and let me know what movie (or movies!) really made you feel it. We'll be posting clips of them from Youtube (if we can find them!) so it'll be an interesting month - and on July 31st we'll be drawing a winner.

Details of prizes and excerpts and stuff will go up too... So get thinking and hop on over to my blog to see my first pick...

love Natalie

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I cried for 5 hours after

I cried for 5 hours after HAIR, thinking that if I had been 8 years older, it would have been friends going off to Vietnam to be killed for nothing.

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Tearjerkers

John Q.  The whole sick child, desperate parent thing.  I watched it w/ my ma and sister and we were all crying by the end.

Eight Below.  My uncle recommended it... I should have known better.

And I will NEVER watch Where the Red Fern Grows or Old Yeller again.

Except for the first one you may notice an animal trend.  Anyway, I avoid tearjerker movies when I have warning.  (For some reason, the same doesn't hold true for books.  I have some I read over and over.)

The great gift is the passion for reading. It is cheap [Hah! It most certainly is not!], it consoles, it distracts, it excites. It gives knowledge of the world and experience of a wide kind. It is moral illumination. ~ Elizabeth Hardwick

My top three

Beaches.  Every time I watch it, I have to call my best friend and tell her how much I miss her.  

The Joy Luck Club.  This one makes me call my mother to tell her how much I miss her. 

The English Patient.  As he's carrying her dying body across the desert and she tells him that she's always loved him...I lose it completely.

~~~~~

"Nothing less than mad, passionate, extraordinary. There are too many things in life that are mediocre. Love shouldn't be one of them." - Dream for an Insomniac

'Love Story', starring Ryan O'neal and Ali MacGraw.  This was when I was about twelve or thirteen.  Cry I cried and cried when Ali's character died in the end.  And the music.... OMG, the music in itself is enough to cry over! LOL!  BTW, when I grew older, I read the original book (for which the movie was made) by Erich Segal, and found it almost as much of a tearjerker - minus the music, of course.

 

Also, I shed some tears over 'Titanic'.  Dumb, I know, but how could anyone not cry over seeing Leonardo DeCaprio frozen solid while Kate Winslet kept calling out his name pitifully?  Smile

 

Jo, I think 'Where the Red Fern Grows' is super sad, too.  My DD cried over that one.

"Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see."

- Mark Twain

I'm frantically...

writing a list here guys!!!

FFrenchie - I have to confess I've never seen HAIR - but I think I should, right? Sounds iie one of those movies that impacted on a generation - would that be right?

Silverfire - yes, I have to admit I avoid tearjerkers now too if I have warning. I think I've gotten 'softer' since having children - has anyone else found that? I just cannot cope with the 'sick kid/desperate parent' movie type - 'there but by the grace of God go I' stuff you know? Too scary. And sometimes I think we 'lose it' more over animal stories than we do over 'human' ones don't we? Not sure why - maybe because they're so vulnerable?

Kristen - YES to all three! Best friends, mothers and lovers - and we never want to be without them...

Amanda - again, losing that lover - oh the tears!! And its the same with Titanic! One of mine is Ghost - yep, another big Hollywood number - but how I cried and cried and cried!!!

for me

Hi Christa!

- yes - that ones popped up already on my blog too - I have to admit that's one of the ones that made me cry so much I almost hated it - but the ending was beautiful wasn't it?

Notebook ending

I found the ending to be a little sad but so beautiful

Natalie and Christa....

I forgot about 'The Notebook' - another book turned movie (those make the best ones IMHO).  I cried when they (as an elderly couple) curled up in bed together and the nurse found them!  And I think it's one of the best movies coping with Alzheimers (or senile dementia) that I've ever seen.  My papaw died with that, so it's doubly touching for me!

 

You should do a blog about the happiest or funniest movies, too. 

"Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see."

- Mark Twain

I cried buckets

at the ending too Christa - Amanda I think you're right and I think many people have had alzheimers/dementia touch their lives in some way and maybe that's part of why the book and movie was so huge...

oh yes - a funny movies blog comp would be great - I think the replies might vary a lot more tho - humour can sometimes be hit and miss I reckon!

I'll start putting clips on my blog later tonight (my time) so come and have a look!!! And the rest of you do join the fun!!!

I cry easily at sad movies

I cry easily at sad movies but I guess the most would be

1. Brian's Song- beautiful story but so sad, another one I could never watch again

2. Charlie- will never forget how I cried, I teared up just listing it here.

3. Where The Red Fern Grows - watched this for the first time in English and I was so embarrassed when the lights came back on. I could barely finish the rest of the day.

4. Old Yeller - could only watch this one time, never again

5. Love Story- I have never watched it again either.

"The Notebook" is one of my

"The Notebook" is one of my FAVOURITE movies of all time.  Loved it.  I got emotional but I didn't really sob like mad. 

 

The movie that made me feel the most emotional, and made me break into tears... was "A League of their Own" (the struggles the women went through, and the breakdown in the relationship between the two sisters... whew)

 

Btw...  Natalie, the contest about "pretending to be someone's girlfriend" is over?  Hehe.  I held off on naming my choice on the eHarl forum because I didn't want my man picked up.  It was Jeffrey Dean Morgan if you were curious.  Mmmm.  That man just is so charming.  Every time I look at him I just think "sexy teddy bear" and want to offer to have his babies.   

 

ETA: Oh snap. I was just looking at your website because I was curious... and I saw you posted lots of the entries.  :)  Cool!  Mine even made it up: http://natalie-anderson.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-must-confess.html  Fun to see!

Movies

1.  The Bridges of Madison County.  First the book then the movie.  The emotion in Streep's eyes when she is gripping that door handle.  Wow.

2.  Deep Impact.  When that meteor is coming and Tea Leoni is holding on to her dad and she says "daddy".  I sob.

3.  A Walk to Remember.  So inspiring but sad.  When he first finds out that she is dying and he goes to his dad.  Again, I sob.

4.  Pride and Prejudice, the new one with Kiera Knightley.  In so many places.  I love it so much I cry happy tears. 

Oh god.  A Walk to

Oh god.  A Walk to Remember!  That made me sob like mad too.....  eeek!   *memories*  Cancer is such a sad thing.  And for the heroine to get married and die quietly like that...  and the hero to be a reformed man after knowing the heroine... and the hero staying so close to her father after her passing....  GOD I'm pretty much crying right now just remembering it.  *tears up* 

 

Another similar feeling...  was the Charlize Theron/ Keanu Reeves "November" movie.... where she's terminally ill and she wants him to leave remembering her how she was while she dies quietly (I can't understand how someone could choose to die alone and I don't know whether to see that choice as natural/unnatural or selfish/unselfish)

Debkc3

- fantastic list - and I know what you mean about being embarassed when the lights come back on - and being stuck without a tissue and trying to sniff quietly!!! LOL. One that did that badly for me was Dead Poet's Society - do'nt think I could watch that one again either...

Oh Janet

- I am such a ninny! I am so sorry for not making that clear - yes, most of the perfect boyfriend fest was over at my blog - I totally forgot to come back here and explain that!!! Duh! My only excuse is that partway thru May my ed brought the deadline for my next book forward a month - to the end of May!!!! So having the perfect pretend boyfriends was actually marvellous cos it meant I could just hand over my blog to them for May while I slaved... (but I got the book in and its since been accepted - yay!)

So to recap for this one - all the clips etc will be over at my blog: http://www.natalie-anderson.blogspot.com - so come and see your picks up in a day or so BUT anyone who comments here will also go into the draw - we'll pull the winner from the hat on July 31st and I'll be sure to annouce it right here too this time!!!!

Now, the Notebook - - currently the front runner actually for most entries. I've never seen A League of their Own... hmmm.. adding to my friday-night-movie-night list :)

Jillyan77

- another fantastic list - I'm so pleased to find someone else who liked the Keira Knightly P&P - everyone I know can't get past the Colin Firth BBC series - but I really enjoyed it - it was verrrrry romantic...

Natalie and Jillyan....

I have both copies of P&P.  I blogged with this once with Donna Alward, because if I'm not mistaken, she likes the Keira Knightly version better.  I like both versions because they're really very different from each other.  Just goes to show how one book can be interpreted in so many ways.  I think Keira's is more lively.  She was much more prone to laugh and have a good time than Jennifer Erle's interpretation.  Even the music was peppier.  OTOH, Firth's version was more detailed and, by far, more historically accurate.  Personally, I love them both, and so does my DH who is a history buff.  Yes, I found them both very emotional, though I've never actually cried.  Smile

"Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see."

- Mark Twain

Natalie - I was crying so

Natalie - I was crying so hard by the end of John Q and I don't have kids.  I can only imagine what my reaction would be if I did.

Janet - November is another one my uncle recommended, but I only watched about 30 min in and left the room, so I didn't really get emotionally involved.

The great gift is the passion for reading. It is cheap [Hah! It most certainly is not!], it consoles, it distracts, it excites. It gives knowledge of the world and experience of a wide kind. It is moral illumination. ~ Elizabeth Hardwick

Oh, there are so many,

I think I have narrowed it down to two....

  1. Terms of Endearment
  2. Steele Magnolias

and maybe a 3rd just for the sheer depressingness of it, was:  House of Sand and Fog.  God, that movie was depressing.  I had a headache when I left the theater. 

 

Terri
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I do tend to cry very easily

I do tend to cry very easily with books and movies.

When I was a kid, I loved to watch the old Shirley Temple movies and of course I was crying. She was an orphan in most of those movies and always had a crying scene that would have me weeping along with her.

All those Lassie movies when she would get lost and finally find her way home has me crying my eyes out. I would always remember my beloved dog, Dolly, who "vanished" and I never saw again. So I could relate to Lassie's owner.

As an adult, movies like Terms of Endearment always make me cry. But I remember wishing that I was home when I saw The Spit Fire Grill. I was not prepared for that ending and I just started to sob. I don't know why it effected me so much but it did. I was having a real hard time not making sobbing sounds but I felt better when I looked around because there were at least five other ladies in my condition.

Natialie, Just wanted to say that I just read your books, His Mistress By Arrangement and I loved it.

Margie :)

... love that Silverfire - and yet its different with books isn't it? I can handle it in a book so much more than a movie - altho I tend to stick to M&B and the happy ever afters!  A writer colleague once loaned me a book and said its a marvellous romance - so I sat and got into it... and you know what happened?? The hero DIED.

I'm sorry. That's not a romance novel - not for me! ;)

Beonlyne - oh my, Steel Magnolias is a HUGE one for me - that was a big headache and a night with little sleep...

Margie - thank you so much - I'm so glad you enjoyed His Mistress by Arrangement :) I've never seen the Spit Fire Grill - adding it to my friday-nightlist tho!!

Oh Amanda

... its interesting the debate between the two P&P - to be honest its so long since I saw the Colin Firth one so I need to see it again to really be able to comment. But I did enjoy the Keira one a lot - yes she was young and pretty and I loved the scene at one of the balls where she sat in a hidden corner on her own and seemed to show all that uncertainty inside... lovely stuff

oh just of another one

The Lakehouse with Sandra Bullock and Keanu Reeves

I bawled at PS I Love You

I bawled at PS I Love You with Hilary Swank and Gerad Butler....... tear jerker...... of course The Notebook.

Ladder 49 - Joaquin Phoenix. Firefighter movie.

Anything where the dog dies

Anything where the dog dies Cry.

I will never watch Old Yeller again--I remember throwing the book across my room as a kid when he had to shoot his dog.  But I was already crying when the dog saved the day with the wild boars.

Love, love, love Eight Below, but I still cry. 

To Kill a Mockingbird makes me cry in several places--some are sad tears, some are tears of "yes!" emotion.

The Lord of the Rings: Fellowship of the Ring.  When Boromir charges up the hill to save his hobbit friends, knowing it's a suicide mission and he's sure to die, I cry.

How about Die Hard.  I cry near the end when Reginald VelJohnson (the black cop--hope I have his name right) pulls his gun and shoots the bad guy.

Ooh.  The Poseidon Adventure when Shelley Winters dies.

Glory.  The final charge at the end. 

I don't cry much during love stories, but then I think I'm braced for an emotional ride.  But dogs and action adventure?  I think things must catch me off guard. Undecided

 

Julie Miller 

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Oh wow, big yes to Glory.

Oh wow, big yes to Glory. We watched parts of it in history class in high school and I was sobbing until English class. 

Another one is the original cartoon-version of Charlotte's Web.  I was subbing in a first grade class a few years back and the teacher left it for the kids to watch.  I was sitting behind her desk, trying not to let the students see me crying. 

~~~~~

"Nothing less than mad, passionate, extraordinary. There are too many things in life that are mediocre. Love shouldn't be one of them." - Dream for an Insomniac

To Kill a Mockingbird!

OMG, I forgot all about that one, too!  It's an awesome movie that packs in so many important issues!  They actually stuck pretty close to the original book, too.  I have to say, I probably did shed a tear or two for that one!  It's very moving.  Lots of angry tears over the unfairness of the prejudice, and lots of tears for the mentally challenged man 'Boo' in the end.  And Atticus Finch always seemed so wise to me.  I would watch it again, definitely!  Smile

"Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see."

- Mark Twain

Hmm, there are a

Hmm, there are a few...

1. Braveheart - I sobbed for three days after seeing this the first time

2. The Lakehouse

3. PS I Love You

4. I Am Legend

Those are my sobbers.  I have more criers....

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My list of movies

My list of movies:

Blackhawk Down - Can't comment

Old Yeller - One of the great coming of age movies. Good book.

Where the Red Fern Grows - Another great coming of age movie. Good Book.

There are some others, but these are my top three.

Articfrog

"And they lived haply ever after."

Articfrog
"And, they lived haply ever after."

Kim P - I'm too scared to see

PS I Love You - I just know I'm going to cry. Same with The Lakehouse, Christa. Oh and I don't know about the firefighter one - they can be heartbreaking (might be worth it for Joaqin though ;)

Julie - fantastic list - I love, love, love To Kill a Mockingbird - is my all time favourite book I think. Read it at school of course and reread it every few years - yes, the sadness and generousity of Boo's character - and the love - melts me every time. And I've always wanted to call a hero Atticus - don't think I'd get away with it tho!

Actually another book I read as a kid that I STILL bawl over is Bridge to Terabithia - I know that was made into a movie recently and its at my DVD store and I just CANNOT pick it up...

Braveheart

was wonderful wasn't it Vivi Anna? I loved the scene (and cried all the way thru) at the very end when he sees his wife in the crowd as he's dying and she's coming to meet him... and given how many times PS I Love You and THe Lakehouse are appearing here I'm really thinking I can't do them - not unless I need a cathartic experience!

Articfrog - there is a scene in Black Hawk Down that is so harrowing and heartbreaking that I refuse to think of it anymore. And it makes it all the worse because those men and women in the forces really must endure experiences like that and I just don't know how they survive emotionally. Its really sobering stuff.

P&P

I adored the Kiera Knightley version of Pride and Prejudice.  Kiera captures Lizzie's character and spirit so well. 

And Mr. Darcy, when I first saw MacFadyen I didn't enjoy him.  But then he grew on me, and by the end I appreciated his interpretation of the roll.

 

Bridge to Terabithia....

Yes, I agree this is a good one, Natalie.  My six-year old DD cried a lot over it!  It is definitely a tearjerker!  And the movie sticks fairly close to the book too - which my big tough brother read when he was younger (for school) and bawled over.  Do you see a running theme here, Natalie?  Books made into movies?  H'm.  Just goes to show that a great author is usually behind even our best movies!  Give another big cheer for authors!  Yay!  *hand clap*  Whoo-hoo!  Okay, I'll calm down now..... <gg>

 

Jillyan, yeah, at first I thought Macfadyen's P&P character wasn't completely a 'Mr. Darcy'.  But then I realized that his more bashful version is quite smashing.  In fact, he's downright sweet and sexy.  I still like Colin Firth though.  I used to be madly in love with him.... Wink

"Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see."

- Mark Twain

Movies that make me

Movies that make me cry:

Little Women

FInding Neverland

P.S. I Love You

Brian's Song

Lorenzo's Oil

Kids Like These (made for TV movie about a child born with DS--came out the year my child with DS was born)

Schindler's List

Nancy

Yes I liked Mathew McFadyen...

... I thought he showed the shyness of Mr Darcy nicely - he came across quite sympathetically I thought...

Must watch Colin again soon! ;)

Amanda

- I'm glad to hear the movie is a good interpretation! I will watch it one day when feeling brave... I agree, there are some fab books made into mpvies BUT I am SO disappointed when a book is made into a movie and it just doesn't cut it...

Sheandeen...

...yet more amazing movies - I can't believe I haven't thought of some of those... Finding Neverland made me howl and so did Miss Potter actually - there's yet another. Yes, sometimes those movies that cut close to home are the ones that really tear us apart.

Natalie...

Yeah, me too.  Sometimes I cringe when I hear a good book is being made into a movie, because I'm just sure modern Hollywood is going to descecrate it by (1) shredding it to pieces or (2) deviating waaaaay from the book until they might as well have started with a different script entirely!  One distorted movie made from a book is 'Scarlet'.  While the book is not nearly as good as Mitchell's Gone With The Wind, they grossly changed the second half of the movie until it in no way resembled the book for which it was named.  Talk about strange.  Yep, books-to-movies can go either way...really good or pretty bad.

 

Oh, and have you seen the Movie about Beatrix Potter (Peter Rabbit's creater) starring Renée Zellweger?  'Miss Potter'.  I was sure they'd screw it up, make her out to be some nitwit bed-hopper or something, but it's actually true to her life.  And there's parts of the film that can certainly bring some tears. 

* Guess I was typing this as you added yours first!

"Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see."

- Mark Twain

Let's see . . . .

This will be tough for me, as I try to avoid movies like this.  I mean, if I cry every time I see ET, and I know he doesn't die, how can I watch anything deeper?

With that said, some of my picks are already here:  Brian's Song, To Kill a Mockingbird, Steel Magnolias, Ghost, Dead Poet's Society.  What I'll add to that list is The Outsiders (I was 12 or 13 when this came out - cried reading it too),  Untamed Heart (yep, I was crying in the theaters) and The Sixth Sense.  I mean really, he's shot (sad), then hey he must be ok, then BAM - he's a ghost.  Hello?  And how about the little girl who's mom poisened her?  Definitely tears for me.

I'm sure someone will mention movies I forgot about.

Amanda

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Yes, I haven't seen

Yes, I haven't seen Charlotte's Web, read the book as a child and just can't see the movie but then I can't watch Bambi either.

Books 2 movies...

- couldn't agree more Amanda - yeah, its the ones where they change the ending (or just ignore it) that drive me nuts!!! I cried a LOT in Miss Potter!!!

 Alias - ET drew them from me too - ooooh The Outsiders!!! Good one. I enjoyed the Sixth Sense - was pleased with myself 'cos I figured it out JUST before it was revealed - then was mad with myself for not spotting is sooner! Drefinitely a few tears in that one - for me when he talks to his wife as she's sleeping at the very end...

 DebKc3 - I haven't seen Charlotte's Web either - any of the versions. But hubby and I read it aloud to my 4 and 5 year olds recently and I cried again!

FIRST MOVIE CLIP UP ON MY BLOG

... ok, the YouTube fun has begun - following on from our chat here and teh emails I've been getting, I've picked one that's been mentioned a few times ... Jude and I will post more over the month so pop back to check them out:

http://www.natalie-anderson.blogspot.com

Julie- Lord of the Rings

I think the scene in Return of the King where you have the father sending Farmimir of to fight and then you see scenes with him eating, Merry(or is it Pippin) singing and Farmirir getting retreating because they are getting beaten gets me. With the three movies being so long there are quite a few tissue moments.

Natalie, I went to your blogspot...

...and read and watched it.  Good choices!  I don't want to say too much on here right now though, lest I spoil it for the others.... Wink

"Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see."

- Mark Twain

Great scene

pick Christa - I love all the LOTR movies - but then I think I have some nationalistic pride tipping in there too ;) It is true that everyone in NZ knows someone who worked on those films!!! LOL.

 Thanks for stopping by the blog Amanda - glad you liked the pick - but hey, you guys chose them!!! I'll be putting them all up over the month - just for fun - so come back again and don't worry about telling - the point is for chat anyway! :)

Oh My

1 Brian's Song I can never watch it without crying

2. Where The Red Fern Grows

3 Love Story

4.Hoosier's

5.The Killer Angels I hate seeing so many good men die for a stupid reason.

6. On Golden Pond This one gets to me everytime. I think it's because my own relationship with my father was strained for so long and now it's good.

 

as I read these....

as I read these posts...I am reminded of many good films I forgot.

Old ones like Love Story and Brians Song (not to mention Old yeller and Bambi), to newer movies like Atonement.

The funny thing about Terms of Endearment, is that I took my roommates 11 year son (who had just come to stay with us), to see it.  After weeks of going to see 11 year old friendly movies (what ever else came out that year-83?) I decided it was my turn.

So we went to see TOE......half way through the movie i looked over at him, and he had his elbow on the armrest and his chin resting on his hand.  .....I whisper are you bored? he doesnt answer...I offer popcorn, and he glares at me and says "shhhh, I'm watching a movie!!"..

When the lights come up he tries to do the tough guy thing and pretend he wasnt crying (I have something in my eye).

Terri
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Terri....

LOL about the 11 yr. old boy.  That's cute.  I can picture him sitting in the theater, trying to pretend he wasn't feeling all emotional.  Why do guys think crying is a sign of weakness?  I think it's sweet.  If anything it makes them all the greater in most women's eyes.  Thanks for sharing that.  It made me smile. Smile

"Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see."

- Mark Twain

There are so many

 - movies out there that make us cry huh? Malcroix54 - I see some of the popular ones on your list but a couple of new ones too  that I have to check out,

And Beonlyone I agree with Amanda - that was a really cool story - what a neat little guy for getting so into it :)

I've put an excerpt of Bought: One Night, One Marriage up on my blog, so go have a taste and then there'll be more movie clips tomorrow!

Hmmm, Friday night is movie night for hubby and me... dare I get PS I Love You????

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