It’s Reigning men!

Dear Gabby: Is he a Frog or a Prince?

Author Brenda Harlen is a former attorney who once had the privilege of appearing before the Supreme Court of Canada. Five years ago she gave up the practice of law to be a stay-at-home mom and to secretly pursue her dreams of writing a book. She enrolled in a romance writing course at a local community college and hasn't looked back!
The Prince's Royal DilemmaGabriella Marconia is an advice columnist for a local newspaper in Tesoro del Mar, the setting for Brenda's new series, REIGNING MEN. Gabriella believes in the old saying—you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince. Well, all she got for her efforts were parched lips. As a columnist with La Noticia, she draws on her experience to offer relationship advice and answer the question: Is he a Frog or a Prince? We thought it would be fun to invite Gabriella to our community to see what insights she can share with US through her daily advice column from Monday to Friday the week of May 19th. Feel free to weigh in with opinions and your own advice for the lovelorn after each entry from Gabriella's column!

Welcome Gabriella...

MONDAY May 19: Dear Gabby

WOULD YOU CHANGE HIM IF YOU COULD?

Dear Gabby,

I met someone at a party—a friend of a friend—and we hit it off right away. I’m a librarian and he’s a corporate raider, but our differences didn’t seem to matter in comparison to the chemistry that sizzled between us from the start.
At the end of the night, he offered me a ride home—on the back of his motorcycle. I’d never been on a bike before and though I was a little hesitant at first, I couldn’t resist the challenge in his eyes—or the opportunity to extend my time with him just a little bit longer. I have to admit I loved the experience of the wind in my face and my arms wrapped tight around him.
Since then, we’ve gone out together three more times. We’ve been hiking, canoeing and we’ve played laser tag. We have another date planned for Saturday afternoon—he wants to take me parasailing, but I’m afraid that might be a little too far outside my comfort zone.

Our previous dates had seemed, at least to me, a fun change of pace, but I’m getting the impression that those kinds of things are his pace. He seems to live every day as if it’s an adventure while I appreciate routine and stability, and now I’m beginning to wonder if there’s any hope for a lasting relationship between us.

What do you think?

Signed, Hopeful in Helena

Dear Hopeful,

I have to admit, there is something about a bad boy that appeals to the adventurous side of us all. Tesoro del Mar’s very own Prince Marcus is a prime example—dark and sexy with just a little bit of a dangerous edge that tempts a woman to try to be what he wants.

But too often in situations of opposites attracting, a woman is challenged by the prospect of taming the very wildness that attracted her in the first place.

Is there hope for a relationship between a small-town librarian and a big-city biker? Sure, but only if you can each accept and respect your differences. If you want to turn him into a Saturday night homebody, you’re dooming yourself to disappointment.

VERDICT: PRINCE—IF you are prepared to take him as he is, BUT if you go into this relationship wanting and expecting to change him, you’ll end up with a FROG

TUESDAY May 20: Dear Gabby

WHAT IS ROMANCE?

Dear Gabby,

My boyfriend and I met at university, although we didn’t start dating until after we’d both graduated. We’ve been together for five months now and when he promised me a romantic evening, I was thinking he would take me to a fancy restaurant where there would be candlelight and wine. What I got was a picnic basket and a blanket on the beach.

I can’t believe he could be so cheap. I realize that we’re both just starting out in new careers and that finances are tight, but after five months of pizzas at home with rented movies, I thought I deserved a little more than bread and cheese with a side of sand.

Were my expectations too high?

Signed, Disappointed in Davenport

Dear Disappointed,

If you’re disappointed, imagine how he must feel to have made such an effort that obviously went unappreciated.

A picnic on the beach? Maybe it’s not expensive, but it’s certainly romantic.

Too many women make the mistake of thinking that a man’s feelings for her are reflected in the amount of money he spends when he takes her out. Romance doesn’t—and shouldn’t—have a price tag.

It’s easy for a man with a lot of cash and connections to sweep a woman off her feet. The prince regent’s cousin, Prince Cameron, is a case-in-point. He might have a royal title and the perks that go along with it, but he’s also reputed to have the heart not even of a frog but of a snake. He’s always seen on the town in the fanciest restaurants and the most exclusive clubs, always with a beautiful woman, always with a different woman. And I bet if you asked any one of those women who let themselves be seduced by the elaborate bouquets of flowers and private candlelight dinners and gifts of glittery jewelry, she would gladly have given it all back for a man who cared about her.

Your guy might be frugal, but he’s thoughtful and considerate, and you need to realize it’s the sentiment behind a gesture that is truly priceless.

VERDICT: PRINCE—but not the right prince for you.

WEDNESDAY May 21: Dear Gabby

WHAT IS ROMANCE? PART II
Dear Gabby,

Recently my boyfriend said he wanted to surprise me with a special date for our first year anniversary. He didn’t tell me where we were going or what we were doing, just that I would absolutely love it.

I always dress up when we go out—I work in landscaping, so I enjoy the opportunity to put on a dress and fancy shoes to go dancing. So I chose my outfit carefully for this date, opting for a halter-style sundress and a pair of high heels with ties that criss-crossed up my calves and that the salesgirl promised would make any man whimper.

And sure enough, my boyfriend’s eyes nearly popped out of his head when he saw me, and he told me—as he always does—that I looked fabulous. What he didn’t tell me was that he’d mapped out a walking tour of all of the places we’d gone on dates in our first year together.

Sure, it was a nice idea, but walking five miles in three-inch heels is not my idea of fun!

Now I’m the one whimpering as I soak my feet and wonder if I want to spend another day—never mind another year—with him. What do you think?

Signed, Blisters in Bellavia

Dear Blisters,

My thought is that your man is sweet—if a little clueless.

When he saw what you were wearing—as he obviously did (and kudos to him for always complimenting you!)—he should have either: (a) explained that his plans for the evening required a lot of walking and given you the opportunity to change your clothes and footwear, OR (b) arranged for transportation so that you didn’t have to walk five miles in three-inch heels—a horse-drawn carriage or bicycle taxi would have upped the romance factor incredibly! (You might not be old enough to remember, but Prince Julian hired a bicycle taxi to take the future Princess Catherine around town to show her the sights of the capital before he proposed. Their taxi driver was the first to know of the engagement!)

That being said, it sounds as if his heart was in the right place and, in the future, you might want to make sure you communicate your wants and needs clearly. Because a man who even remembers all the places you’ve been together in the past twelve months is definitely a man worth hanging onto—although you’ll probably want to bandage your feet before you take that next step forward.

VERDICT: PRINCE (undoubtedly!)

Welcome, Brenda

This is really cute and I cannot wait to get this series. I love series, although I have to admit that I like to have the entire series before I read them. I'm not a very patient person, I'm afraid.

Would you like to share with us where you came up with the idea for this? Is it personal experience?

Rae

Reply to Welcome

Hi Rae,

Thanks so much for the welcome. I'm thrilled to be here at eharlequin to promote this series and connect with readers.

I've always been a reader who loves series, too, and I often stockpile books so that I can read connected stories end-to-end, though I'm hoping readers will be so excited about "Reigning Men" that they can't wait until December (which is when the third book, THE PRINCE'S HOLIDAY BABY, is scheduled for release) to get started on this series. (Book 2, THE PRINCE'S COWGIRL BRIDE, will be available in August.) 

The idea for this series actually came when I was listening to the soundtrack to Bridget Jones' Diary--I love the Gerri Hallowell's (sp?) version of Raining Men!--and I just thought "wouldn't it be fun to write a series about 'Reigning Men'?" Thankfully, my editors loved the idea as much as I did, and here we are . . . (okay-I have a pop-up blocker that I don't know how to disable, but there should have been a smiley face there.)

 

 

 

Did you say December?

That's a typo--right? Wink  I suppose I can wait. Impatiently, of course!

I love it when an idea sparks from a song or movie. As well as books, I think they light a fire under my own personal creativity. I'm glad the editors loved your idea as much as you did.

And that's a beautiful cover, by the way.

Rae

Wow, how interesting, Brenda!

I haven't seen anything like this on eharl yet.  I love group participation.  And how wonderful of you to open up your series in such a fun way.  It sounds pretty cool.  Do you have your series completed, or are you still working on it?

 

  I thought it was interesting also that you mentioned how you were inspired by listening to the music of a 'Bridget Jone's Diary'.  I posted a blog about connecting music with writing and received quite a few responses from other authors.  I find myself inspired by music, and apparently so do many others.  Isn't that amazing?  But then, I think that most author/writers are also interested in many of the other arts as well. 

 

I sincerely admire you for resettling yourself into the writer's sphere after being involved in the justice system.  I think there's nothing in the world that can compare to the dreams, hope, and love involved in writing!  To me, reading is the most enjoyable experience possible, and to provide that venue for others as a writer makes you a sort of heroine in your own right.

 

I, for one, can't wait to read your series! 

"Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see."

- Mark Twain

Yes, December

I know it seems far away now, but I'm sure it will be here before we know it and I hope you will find that THE PRINCE'S HOLIDAY BABY is worth the wait.

And yes, I love the cover of THE PRINCE'S ROYAL DILEMMA and also THE PRINCE'S COWGIRL BRIDE (which I found on the barnesandnoble site) and I can't wait to see what the art department comes up with for HOLIDAY BABY.

Hi Amanda!

No one has ever called me a heroine before . . . I am so incredibly flattered, and a little worried about living up to that kind of billing :-) But I can agree that, as a reader, I always admired those who wrote the stories and I do hope that my books will similarly inspire others to follow their dreams--or at least give them a few hours' escape from the real world. 

It's so true about a writer's inspiration coming from so many different sources, particularly music and art. For me, it can be a line in a song (or a title, as with Reigning Men) or a picture that makes me wonder about--and want to tell--the story behind it.

And you're right--there is nothing that compares to writing. It was always my first passion and I'm so thrilled to be making a career of it--not to mention that working from home lets me spend more time with my kids (although they would disagree about that when a deadline is on the horizon) and I don't have to wear panythose or heels!

As for those deadlines, I have just finished the third story in the Reigning Men series (although I won't say the last, because I'm hopeful that if the series does well my editor will want to see my ideas for the next trilogy.  THE PRINCE'S ROYAL DILEMMA introduces three minor characters who are already demanding their own stories!) and will do the final read-through and get it on my editor's desk by the end of this week.  

 

 

Hi Brenda!

Hi Brenda,

Glad to see you here on eHarlequin! 

I'm reading the The Prince's Royal Dilemma right now, and I'm loving it. Can't wait for the other books so I can hear the stories of the other brothers (who I'm guessing will be the H's). They all sound yummy!

Marcy

Winner - Ultimate Reunion Contest 2006
Honourable Mention - Ultimate Secret Contest 2007

http://www.marcybassettkennedy.blogspot.com/

Hey Marcy!

Good to "see" you again. Thanks for your post--I'm so pleased to hear that you're enjoying THE PRINCE'S ROYAL DILEMMA. And yes, the brothers are the heroes in the other stories . . . Laughing (Hey, I switched computers and can use the smiley faces now!) 

Funny, the ms I'm working

Funny, the ms I'm working on now was also sparked by a song...All American Girl by Carrie Underwood. The part about the football star's father saying he'd lose his chance to go to college if he didn't break up with the girl that was stealing his focus got me thinking...what if the father told the girl to break up with his son? And what would happen when the boy, now a man, finally learned the truth?

It's amazing how a song that is only three minutes long can tell a story that can inspire an entire book.

Marcy

Winner - Ultimate Reunion Contest 2006
Honourable Mention - Ultimate Secret Contest 2007

http://www.marcybassettkennedy.blogspot.com/

Reply to "Funny . . . "

What a great story idea, Marcy. The other thing that always amazes me is how a group of writers can take the same line/idea from something like a song and come up with completely different characters and slants for their own stories. Maybe there are no new ideas--but there are always new ways to write them! Good luck with the story . . .

Hey, did anyone read . . .

. . . Gabby's column today? It got me thinking that it might be fun to write her story--and setting her up with the infamous Prince Cameron. It's always fun to put together two characters who you know will clash from the start and watch the sparks fly. Hmm . . . well, my problem has never been a lack of ideas, it's just finding the time to write them all down. Cool 

oil and vinegar

Brenda, those two would be like oil and vinegar, but what an amazing salad they would make!

Jayne 

Now I'm definitely "tossing"

Now I'm definitely "tossing" the idea around.Wink

Salad Analogy

Love it. Hope you're still tossing today, Brenda. I love it when ideas come out of the garden. '-)

Rae

Still Tossing

The idea will probably sit in the back of my mind for a while while I work on proposals for other projects that are a little more fleshed out, but I'm sure it won't go away . . . the ideas never do! Oh, if only I could have a few more hours in every day Smile

Reigning Men

I love your play on words here and your idea for a series. I'll be looking for them.

Thanks, Sparkle. I do love

Thanks, Sparkle. I do love to play with words--it's one of my favorite things about being a writer. (Along with the no pantyhose thing . . .)

hi brenda

Loved your newest story!  Can't wait to read the rest of the series.  Though these books may be short in volume (I wish they were longer so I could get into the characters' heads even more and they could have even more adventures!) they sure are big in story:  sexy heroes, sultry heroines,  unique plots, and now you've added your own "Paradise" setting.  Keep up the good work and I hope we'll get to read the second series of Reigning Men very soon! 

Thanks SMAY

It's always great to hear from readers, especially when they say such nice things. I'm so pleased that you enjoyed THE PRINCE'S ROYAL DILEMMA and are looking forward to future stories. I'm hoping there will be a lot of them because I'm loving Tesoro del Mar so much I don't ever want to leave! Smile

Thursday: May 22--Dear Gabby

TO SAIL OR NOT TO SAIL?

Dear Gabby,

A friend of mine had an extra ticket to a gala at the yacht club, where I met this really cute guy. We had a couple of drinks together and talked, and he told me that he’d been part of the national team for last year’s America’s Cup race. I don’t remember what he said his job was because I don’t know all that much about sailing, which I should have realized could be a barrier to any potential relationship between us because sailing was all he talked about.

When he asked if I sailed, I admitted—a little self-consciously—that I can’t even float on a blow-up raft in a swimming pool for too long without feeling seasick. Well, obviously he wasn’t listening because where does he take me for our first date? To the marina!

I was apprehensive, but I really wanted to spend the day with him, so I stepped onboard his boat. Within five minutes, the shifting of the deck beneath my feet is making me feel queasy. He promises I’ll feel better if we go below-deck, so I think he’s got some anti-nausea medication I can take. No—he thinks that kissing me is going to make me forget the motion, but when I close my eyes (because everything else aside, the guy is a really good kisser) my stomach starts to pitch and roll even more and I have to pull away from him to be sick. And then he gets mad at me for throwing up on his freshly-polished teak floor.

Since then, he’s left two messages on my machine asking me to call him, but I haven’t because I don’t know—what am I supposed to say to him now?

Signed, Lonely Landlubber

Dear Landlubber,

Tell him to take a long walk off a short pier.

I don’t have any inherent objection to sailors—in fact, anytime I see a clip on television or a photo in the paper of Prince Eric in his naval uniform, my heart can’t seem to help but go pitter-patter—but I do object to men who are self-absorbed.

I’d say you were pretty clear in telling him you didn’t do well on boats, and he didn’t hear what you were saying or chose not to believe it. Either way, I would say his obsession with water is proof he’s an amphibian.

VERDICT: FROG

I only posted today's so

I only posted today's so that it would come in succession, since the other ones aren't. We were hoping that they'd just fall into place, but they aren't. I'm not really Gabby. Wink

My advice wouldn't be so sage. Guess that's why my name is Rae. *vbg*

Brenda, there's never enough time in the day. I've found that out this week as I run around like a chicken with my head cut off. I'm subbing in for my friend who works for my next door neighbor. She's 82 and can run with the best of them--that's all we've done is run, run, run. Hoping today is a slow one.

I've enjoyed this thread--Gabby's advice immensely. Anything else you want to share with us about this series? We're all ears.

Rae

Response to Rae

Life is just too busy sometimes, isn't it? I can always tell my life is out of control when my to-be-read pile starts to tip over, because whatever else I'm doing, I always try to make time to read but right now, the pile is definitely tipping Surprised Anyway, I hope you find a chance to put your feet up and relax with a good book soon . . .

As for sharing anything else about the series . . . well, I don't want to give anything away Sealed but I'd be happy to answer any specific questions anyone might have.

Looking at Gabby's most recent column, I can say all of the REIGNING MEN heroes are, of course, true princes in every sense of the word Wink Of course, they have their questionable moments, as all men do . . . and because there wouldn't be any stories otherwise. Smile (Can you tell I love these emoticons?)

 

Hi Brenda. I'm just

Hi Brenda.

I'm just popping by to say hello. I picked up The Prince's Royal Dilemma the other day (and one for Sharon). There was only one copy left after that, and I'm sure it's gone now, too. It's next on my reading pile as I'm finishing up another book at the moment, and I find it hard to read more than one book at a time.

Kate.

Hi Brenda! What a fun

Hi Brenda!

What a fun idea for a series!  Gabby sounds smart and funny. Smile I'm going to order it today--am looking forward to reading it outside in my backyard, since it's finally starting to warm up here in Toronto. 

Kate 

 

To Kate W-

Thanks for picking up THE PRINCE'S ROYAL DILEMMA. I hope you enjoy it and that it inspires dreams of warm, sunny islands and hot, hunky princes . . .

To Kate Bridges

Thanks for popping in Smile but if it's warm in Toronto, you're having better weather than we are . . .

Anyway, I hope you will enjoy REIGNING MEN, though to clarify, Gabby is a fictional character created for this forum who doesn't actually appear in THE PRINCE'S ROYAL DILEMMA or either of the subsequent two stories, though I am thinking she might get one of her own . . . of course, I'll have to talk to my editor about that Wink

 

Friday May 23--Dear Gabby

LOVE HIM OR LEAVE HIM?

Dear Gabby,

I know that workplace romances are always a bad idea but I somehow managed to forget that long enough to not only get involved but fall in love.

I was attracted to this man from the beginning but, until recently, I didn’t have any idea that he felt the same way. Recently we’ve been spending more time together and growing closer, but the situation is really complicated because he’s my boss and he’s a single father.

I’ve always admired his dedication to his job but lately I’ve realized that he works even harder at being a good dad. In fact, it was probably his commitment to his children that propelled my feelings beyond serious infatuation to the all-encompassing love I feel for him now.

He’s way out of my league—I know that, but I’m head over heels anyway. My best friend is worried that he’ll break my heart and she wants me to find another job before that can happen. I know that’s a risk, but I think it’s a risk I’m willing to take. I know for sure I don’t want to leave him.

What do you think I should do, Gabby? Should I walk away? Or should I follow my heart and hope for a future with a man who is even more than I ever dared to dream about?

Signed, Royally Confused

Dear Confused,

Wow, I’ve only read your letter and I’m halfway in love with this guy myself!

If you have any doubt that he’s prince material, you only need to look at the similarities between his life and that of HRH Rowan Santiago. Following the tragic deaths of his brother and sister-in-law, the hunky prince left a successful career as a financial advisor in London (and England’s loss is definitely our gain!) to take over the running of the country and assume custody of his niece and nephews. In my opinion, any man who demonstrates that same commitment to family is a man worth risking your heart for.

My advice? Go for it!

VERDICT: This man is definitely a PRINCE! And if it doesn’t work out for you, please give him my number!

Just thought I'd say hello...

Hello Brenda,

Congratulations on your newest book!  I'm off to Jolly old England on Monday.. maybe I'll meet one of your reigning Princes while I'm visiting!  In the meantime, get your writing hand practiced up... I've got a heck of a pile of books piled up!  See you when I get back!

Affectionately xo M

Marilyn B

Have a wonderful trip!

Hi Marilyn,

Have a wonderful trip . . . and please say 'hi' to the Windsors while you're there Smile We'll talk when you get back--TTFN!

 

Great forum!

Hi Brenda:  Just wanted to say how much I've enjoyed this forum.  Love reading the comments from your readersSmile and Gabby has definitely captured my imagination with her witty advise column.  Definitely fodder for the mill hereLaughing ( I, too, have discovered the joy of  emoticons.  Too bad you can't use these in the actual stories in case we get confused-which of course, we never would as your characters are so well defined).  How did you come up Tesoro del Mar and how do we get there?

Great forum!

Hi Brenda:  Apparently my fingers are twitchy and this got sent twice.  Hope this eradicates  the double posting.  But if not, that's okay too.  Maybe the series should be read twice too!  You know what they say about love being better the second time around! 

Directions to Tesoro del Mar

Thanks for your post, SMAY. As for getting to Tesoro del Mar, the only way to do that is (conveniently) through reading the REIGNING MEN series.

As I have never been to an actual Mediterranean island (although I keep dreaming!)--and since I didn't think it was right to create a political coup to put my royal family in power even if I had--I decided to make one up. Ahh, the joys of writing fiction--perfect settings, perfect weather, perfect men (DEFINITELY fiction Smile ).

I picture it being close to Spain (with strong Spanish and French influences in its history and culture) and surrounded by turquoise waters. And, of course, it is a country with a long and interesting history--most of which never appears in any of the stories.

It's funny how, as writers, we create these elaborate backgrounds in order to better understand our characters or settings and then the reader never even gets to see them--although hopefully some of it is reflected in the greater sense of depth from having gone to that extent in the planning/development stage of the story. 

For example, the reader learns early on that Prince Rowan's brother, Prince Julian, and Julian's wife, Catherine, died in an explosion on their yacht. This throws Rowan's life into complete turmoil as he now must come back to Tesoro del Mar to take over as prince regent--and guardian of his brother's three children. But the reader never learns why Julian was wearing the crown in the first place--where was his father--Prince Eduardo?

Well, Prince Eduardo was actually assassinated by a man he'd appointed to a minor government position in order to appease the anti-royal group known as the PLT (People for the Liberation of Tesoro del Mar). I thought this was interesting background and potential foundation for so many issues/concerns but, in the end, it didn't take the story in the direction it needed to go. And so, while it was necessary background in that it put Julian in power when he was killed, it's a story that never gets told to the readers--until now Smile

Thanks so much for your post . . . and further sparking this discussion. It has been a lot of fun Smile

 

Hi Brenda! Thanks for

Hi Brenda!

Thanks for clarifying about Gabby. Yes, she should definitely get her own book! Smile 

Your mediterranean island sounds wonderful, a great setting to imagine as I read. I picked up the book yesterday at a local bookstore (decided not to wait for web delivery) and the story sounds intriguing. Congratulations on the series!

Kate

Thanks to Kate . . .

Thanks for picking up the book, Kate. I hope you enjoy it.

And for anyone who doesn't know, Kate is a master at setting, and you should check out her recent "Klondike" series from Harlequin Historicals. KLONDIKE FEVER is the latest (I believe), but all of the stories are fabulous reads--with very sexy heroes Wink

 

Thanks to Everyone

Hello all,

I don't know how much longer this forum will be here, but I wanted to take this last opportunity to thank everyone for stopping by to talk about REIGNING MEN. I'd especially like to thank Rae for moderating this session and Jayne for all of her work in putting it together. It's been a lot of fun!

Happy weekend everyone . . .

Thanks, Brenda.

Thanks, Brenda. It's been fun!

Marcy

Winner - Ultimate Reunion Contest 2006
Honourable Mention - Ultimate Secret Contest 2007

http://www.marcybassettkennedy.blogspot.com/

Anyone still here?

I wasn't sure where to mention this. Hopefully someone checks on this. I just read the Prince's Cowgirl Bride and thoroughly enjoyed it. I have been a little late ordering, I guess coz it looks like I missed the first in the series.

I hate missing a book in a series. For what it's worth Brenda Harlen sold me on book one and three, through book 2. I am guessing book 1 is the story of Rowan and Lara.

I have entered a short review if anyone is interested: http://community.eharlequin.com/review/reigning-men

Empi

Every time we say let there be in any form, something happens - Stella Terrill Mann

http://www.freewebs.com/empire76/

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