Define Sexy

Hard to chop down to three!  Can I say "kind" goes without saying, but here are the other three?? (Cheater, I know!!)

1) strong sense of family (got to love men with babies!!!)

2) great sense of humor, including being able to laugh at himself

3) intelligence.  Not necessarily book smart, but someone who is, in general, smart -- and who likes a smart partner in return!

it's kind of interesting to me that no one has mentioned physical attributes.  i'm kind of thinking that if you asked this question of men, you would get more physical comments.

but i do have to say, a sense of humor is incredibly sexy.

my top three would be: 

sense of humor

attentive listener

motivated

lucky for my, my husband has all three of those ;-)

Let me be the first to mention physical attributes! LOL 

(For me inteligence is the given, so I'll borrow the cheater's cheat!)

1) long hair 

2) twinkling eyes

3) great smile 

1. Kind/Affectionate/Protective (okay I'm cheating)

2. Sense of humor. Not crazy kind that like practical jokes. I can't stand that. Just someone funny.

3. Physically, I love a clean shaven guy with short hair. Put him in a suit with some sexy cologne and I find that just YUMMY!

Margie :)

Oh well, if we're going for physical traits...

1. eyes, I love a man with an intense look, one that says I want to gobble you up

2. tall, I love tall men

3. I prefer short hair, but a little longish to the ears, with a messy look, I like that too.   Really long hair, no thanks.

On the long hair point...mid-back is fine.  I've known a couple of guys wtih waist-length hair, though, and it was thinning, too.  Totally skanky.

BTW--my man refuses to grow his hair past his ears--a total bummer, since when it gets shaggy it starts to curl.  Ooh--there's another sexy trait!

sexy is more than what a man looks like.  though a killer smile and dimples dont hurt.

It is more the way he acts...can he laugh at himself.....can he be a good sport. be open with his feelings.

I love to watch men hold babies.  Just let their guard down and just let the love show.

I love a man who isnt afraid to move.....shake his grooove thing.  who can treat people right.

H'm. Sexy?  

I guess I'm always drawn to a man that smells good more than just looks good.  I've noticed that that it's something I always include in my main male characters.  It's also something I expect from my husband! LOL!  There's something about a man who smells divine...<pant>!  And there's also something totally wrong about a man who looks oh-so-hot and stinks like????  Second on my list is intelligence, so if a man's a little nerdy it's okay.  Just so long as he's got secret jet vibes along with his nerdiness!  No, seriously, I consider sexy to be how a man treats a woman, not just until the newness wears off, but for years to come.  When I'm in a room with others and my husband of almost thirteen years stands next to me, touches my hand lightly, flirtaciously, or winks at me from across the room, now, I think that's sexy!