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Age : 22 years old
Location : California
Sex : Female
Interest : Reading, writing, laughing.
Member since : January 2008
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- Sam, Very Wise Words07/23/2008 - 14:57
I was nodding the whole time I read your reply. Rejections hurt. Some more than others, but you always should be open to hear what the editor or agent had to say. *that's the only reason why I toss forms. I should keep them for tax purposes though...*
Some of the best feedback I received came from rejections. The thing I look out for is what isn't working for this story and what am I doing across the board.
- 07/22/2008 - 22:24
I lucked out when I first published. *I had only 2 (or 3?)rejections to my name when my first story got contracted.* Since I never seen a rejection before I was still hopeful after reading "Dear Author" not knowing about the mack truck coming straight for my hopes and dreams.
So, advice for form letters: just throw them away. Don't take them personally. Don't think she/he could have at least....Don't even start a thought that way. You'll drive yourself insane. There is no code ring for a form.
Here's how you know:
"Your project was not right for us."
"What doesn't work for one agent/publisher..."
"I wish you the best of luck..."
Honestly, once you read "Dear Author" just put the thing in the trash. *How do I know, you ask? I've been agent searching. They coined Form rejections.*
Now for anything else refer to Dee, because just like you I'm googling Personal Rejections Code Ring.
And sorry for taking over the thread. I had a $1.50 instead of .02 cents.
- 07/21/2008 - 10:50That can be said for any where you've lived for a long amount of time. It just starts to feel like you are seeing the samw people every day.
- 07/21/2008 - 09:49
Well, I guess my knowledge of our fair citizens starts in church. My father is a preacher and I know people from having to see them every single Sunday(lets also include visiting churches and their folk). And then I went to Cooper. Then Fresno High. Then Edison. Fresno State and Fresno City College follows behind that.
And then I got knocked up by someone who literary knew every body and they mama. So, if I didn't know them per se they knew who I was. If I had a dollar for every time I heard, "Oh, you are such-n-such baby mama." I'd be able to write full-time.
Needless to say I'm for Birth Control.
TMI, possibly?
Anyway, I now reside on the Westside. It's definitely not as bad as it used to be. Even though I'm now a hermit I still hear, "Ain't you such-n-such baby mama....."
- 07/20/2008 - 17:56
Might have darts where Fresno is then.
And interesting. I never thought of Fresno that way. I guess I've been here so long everyone seems to know everybody. If you didn't go to school with someone then you know someone who did. Hmm. Something to chew on.
- 07/20/2008 - 13:55
No way. I never get to go out in public in PJs. (I always hear my mother's voice. "You did what?")
Anyway, I wasn't born in Fresno, but I grew up there and still currently residing in the Boondocks. We think we are a big city, but we ain't there yet. It's just comforting to know someone else knows this ink spot on the map.
- 07/19/2008 - 22:15
About the P.J. party. I'm packing and thought to myself, "I should buy some new P.J.s."
More details like where?
Also, a year late: Dee, you know of Fresno, CA?
- 07/11/2008 - 17:28Congrats!!!
- 06/30/2008 - 20:07
To give hugs. Rs suck big time, but with each one your skin gets a little tougher and those ones with feedback become golden.
Update:
1 rejection on partial
1 rejection on query
1 request for full: priceless
Lastly *coughcan'twaitfornational's!cough*
- 06/12/2008 - 14:46
I was at last year's party and it was really fun. I have to agree, you lack snootiness when you are in your jammies.
